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Chris La Tray's avatar

Beautifully written, Antonia. I've been sitting here reflecting on my dad, a person who, though he was always there in my life (and continues to be now that he has passed on), remains an utter mystery to me. The reflections are amplified as I am editing the chapter in my book that tells the story of his passing, one my editor said was "one of the most lifeless," and I really don't know what to do with it. As written, I don't think I could get through it in front of an audience without breaking apart so who knows what it is missing. We do indeed all have these people in our lives and it is complicated. I hope I can figure out a way to get it on the page.

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Kenneth James's avatar

I am convinced that the only measure of immortality we can be sure of rests within those words of kindness and affection spoken about us long after we've left this world. And while it is up to each of us to plant the seeds of those words while we walk out this life, there are times when we sow unwittingly simply by being authentic and present in those fleeting moments of joy and connection with another human being. It's a little bit like magic.

You have done your beloved Cora a great service. Thank you for sharing.

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