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Sherri S.'s avatar

Antonia, thank you for bringing this situation and its attending historical, political, economic and social complications to my attention. You do this thoughtfully and carefully. Too often our instincts are to frame "sides" and choose our idea of who best fits the roles of good and evil. It's rarely that clean cut. I appreciate the way you have brought the varied perspectives into conversation with each other.

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Debra Earling's avatar

I recently gave up a friend[ship] of 25 years because she expressed her "hate" of rich Californians moving into her quaint seaside town when she herself transplanted there from Philadelphia 30 some years before. She proceeded to tell a group of prominent women writers that "these people" were changing her way of life, her culture. I stayed quiet until she said "her culture." Your culture? I said. You come from a very privileged and wealthy background. As did your husband. You reside in the traditional homeland of the S’Klallams and in Washington state where over 20 tribes were wiped out and more dispossessed. I'm sitting here at the opposite end of the table from you. My mother was forced to go to boarding school, forced and systematically shamed to give up her identity and culture. And she replied, I'm saying my experience is an echo of that. She kept repeating, echoing, "I'm saying my experience is an echo of that.

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