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Chris La Tray's avatar

I've only ever tried to use a guided meditation once, and I despised it. When I have opportunity to sit, the last thing I want is any connection to anything electronic, anyone talking to me, any guidance, none of it. Maybe that's arrogance, I don't know, but the world is coming at me all the time anyway, people are suggesting, "You know, what you ought to do is.... " and I just can't abide it. So I flail away ignorant and untrained and that's good enough for me. I don't know what sitting is doing for me beyond training my body to be able to sit still but I feel like that is its own benefit.

All that said, my practice, which was daily for a long stretch, has suffered. My old cat doesn't much leave the room where here bed and food is anymore, which is here in my "office." And she has decided that the best time to get additional pets (and random bites in at my toes, elbows, and knuckles) is as soon as I lower my fat ass onto my cushion. My perspective then is that what is the point of meditating if it's more important than rubbing the ears of this 21+ year companion who won't be around much longer?

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Charles Wyble's avatar

It’s unbelievably productive and feels wonderful, in part because I don’t have to give or receive conversation unless I choose to and can dedicate all my prime hours to writing, but that’s not my life.

That’s key! Conversation (especially real time , verbal) is exhausting and it can drag on and on. The parties feel the need to fill any dead space . I much prefer written communication. So much easier.

I want a virtual library. Where everyone can sit and work and perhaps just occasionally talk. Or something.

The days gets lonely , even though they are productive !

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